Ten years ago, I thought I was in love, but really, I didn't know what love was. I read that "love is a choice to commit to something, someone, no matter what obstacles or temptations stand in the way". I think it is a lot more than that, but in a world where marriage is so disposable, I am happy to be married to my best friend and share life's ups and downs with Ryan. He helps me a ton and accepts and loves me for who I am. Ryan told me he read that ten years is the first major milestone in a marriage. I feel like we have had a lot of milestones and though life has not been perfect (nor do I expect it to be), I am grateful for where we are now.
Here is a look back:
2001: Met on a blind date while waterskiing, fell in love, got married 6 months later.
2002: Decided we loved each other enough to be married not only now but for eternity and got sealed in the Salt Lake Temple November 27th.
2003: I graduated from Weber State University in Diagnostic Medical Sonography. Ryan started working for the Utah Department of Corrections.
2004: Bought our first home in Saratoga Springs in February and found out two weeks later I was expecting our first son, Carson who would later be born in October.
2005: We must have been busy learning how to be parents, because we can't remember anything else from this year! :)
2006: Ryan graduated from Weber State Uniniversity in Criminal Justice with a minor in Psychology. Yahoo!
2007: Welcomed Wyatt into our family in March. We sold our home and moved into our second home in September.
2008: Spent a lot of time working on our yard and working at work.
2009: Had a romantical vacation in Cancun that reminded us why we fell in love in the first place.
2010: Baby Easton was born on May 24. I officially live with 4 boys!! Had to buy a van. :)
2011: Finished our basement! Ryan will graduate from POST (police academy) on December 15th!!
Ryan also told me that the gift thing-a-ma-jiggy for ten years is tin or aluminum because it is strong, yet flexible. I was a bit worried he was going to make me a necklace or something out of aluminum foil. He surprised me with tickets to Lady Antebellum (Thompson Square & Darius Rucker) and we will be going on Februrary 14th!! I am so excited! He did perfect--knowing it would be something for me to look forward to and a date night with him with some dang good music, which I love.
Happy Anniversary, Ry! I love you!!